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Staying close to grandchi ldren in today’s screen- dr i ven world can feel like a challenge, especially for families separated by distance. But connection doesn’t have to fade between visits. By making small adjustments in how technology is used, grandparents can become part of their grandkids’ everyday lives — not just the occasional phone call or holiday visit.
One of the easiest ways to start is by focus ing on a single method of communication. Whether it’s a video calling app, a messaging platform, or even simple texting, sticking with one tool in the beginning helps reduce confusion and builds comfort on both ends. When communication is predictable and straightforward, it becomes easier for everyone to connect without hesitation.
Video calls work best when they go beyond basic conversation. Giving the call a shared purpose can make it feel more like a visit than a check-in. This might mean reading a story together, showing off a new drawing, or baking the same recipe in separate kitchens. The activity creates a shared experience, making the interaction more memorable and fun for both generations.
Games are another way to add energy and interaction to long-distance relat ionships. Online chess, word games, or puzzle apps provide something to share even when you’re not talking in real time. These kinds of activities help bridge the age gap, giving grandparents and grandchildren a common goal and a reason to keep engaging.
Small, casual updates also go a long way in keeping the relationship alive. Sending a quick snapshot of your garden, a short voice message, or a “goodnight” note can make your presence a natural part of your grandchi ld’s daily routine. These moments don’t have to be long or elaborate — their power comes from their consistency and the feeling they create of always being in touch.
Some families even turn learning technology into a game by reversing roles. Letting kids guide their grandparents through something new on the phone — whether it’s sending an emoji, adding a filter to a photo, or instal ling an app — not only builds pride in the child but also boosts the grandparent’s confidence. As with many practical ways to bridge the digital divide, this approach turns technology from a source of frustration into a source of connection.
Ultimately, closing the digital generation gap isn’t about mastering every new app or owning the latest devices. It’s about finding steady habits, creating shared experiences, and being open to learning from each other. Technology is simply the tool — the real magic comes from the effort, creativity, and care that go into each interaction.
This Grandparents Day, consider making small but meaningful changes to how you connect. Whether it’s a regular video call with a planned activity, a friendly game played from afar, or a steady stream of quick updates, these moments add up. They transform distance into just another part of the backdrop, leaving the relationship at the center — warm, strong, and very much alive. ] Vicky Gemme works at ECDOL as a Senior Care Specialist and has been working in this field for over four years. She also has a National Caregiver Certification from the American Caregiver Association.
